In this heartfelt episode, Alanna and Adrienne open up about the emotional journey of learning to drive — and all the anxiety, excitement, and growing pains that come with it. From the first moments of holding a permit to the nerve-wracking experience of preparing for the license test, this mother-daughter duo reflects on the deeper meaning behind gaining independence.

Through laughter, vulnerability, and raw honesty, they share how fear can be transformed into confidence and how trust plays a powerful role in the process — not only between driver and passenger but between parent and child. This episode is more than just about driving; it’s about learning to believe in yourself, even when the road feels uncertain.

Five Key Takeaways

1. Anxiety is part of growth. Feeling fear is natural when facing something new — what matters is pushing through.
2. Trust is a two-way street. Learning to drive tests both the learner’s confidence and the teacher’s patience.
3. Small victories matter. Every milestone, like parallel parking or driving on the highway, is worth celebrating.
4. Conversations heal fear. Open, honest communication between parent and child turns stress into understanding.
5. Driving symbolizes independence. It’s not just about getting from point A to B — it’s about stepping into a new chapter of life.

Notable Quotes

“Sometimes the scariest roads lead to the strongest drivers.” – Adrienne

“Getting my permit felt like holding freedom in my hands… and fear in my chest.” – Alanna

“Driving isn’t just about the car — it’s about courage.” – Adrienne

Thank you to Jeanette Arsenault for the honor and privilege of using My Daughter My Friend as our theme song.

Award-winning Canadian singer-songwriter and motivational speaker Jeanette Arsenault creates uplifting music that inspires change on mental health, gender equality, and environmental sustainability. Explore more at jeanettearsenault.ca.