Send us Fan Mail

The good girl isn't loud. She's quiet. And she's running your life.

She's the one who says "I just don't like conflict" when really she doesn't feel safe having an opinion. The one who asks "what do you think?" before every decision. The one who won't earn too much in case it offends someone, and won't buy the handbag she wants in case someone judges her.

This episode isn't about the big good girl rules like get married, get the right career, do what your parents say. It's about the small, everyday ones running underneath your life right now, and what they're quietly costing you.

We get into:

• Why "I just don't like conflict" and "I'll just do it myself" are masks, not personality traits
• The light and dark side of being nice, polite and selfless
• How shrinking shows up in your friendships, your marriage, your money and your confidence
• Why your childhood stories explain the good girl but don't excuse living from her now
• What confidence actually is, and why it doesn't just show up one day
• Why breaking up with the good girl doesn't mean blowing up your life

This is the start of the Hot, Worthy and Wealthy movement.

Join me in person at The Ex-Good Girl LIVE: Friday 30 October, 10am–2pm, Perth. Four hours, $47, or $70 when you bring a friend.

The Ex-Good Girl LIVE Tickets HERE