What if the reason you can't figure out HOW your biggest dreams are going to happen is that you're not actually supposed to know yet? ✨ Today we're talking about one of the BIGGEST questions I get asked about manifestation: "HOW do you actually let go of the how?!" I get it!! When you want something SO badly, it can feel almost impossible to stop trying to strategize, predict, plan, and orchestrate every single detail of how it's going to happen. (Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Xj28rCb2jAw)

But here's the thing: your dreams were never meant to be a one-person operation. In this episode, we're diving into the Bridge of Incidents (a fascinating concept from Neville Goddard), the idea of unseen magic unfolding behind the scenes, and why you might be trying to solve an equation without having all the variables yet. I'm also sharing one of the WILDEST full-circle stories from my own life, one of which starts with a time I spent $75 to send an empty cardboard box to a literary agent. We talk about the difference between being an active participant in your dreams and feeling like you have to manage the entire unfolding, how to recognize little moments of divine inspiration, and why the path to your dreams might look completely different (and so much better!) than anything you could have planned.

I hope this episode gives you the biggest exhale and reminds you that there is SO much more possible than what your logical mind can currently see.

✨ WANT TO GO DEEPER? Inside Dreamaway, my subconscious transformation and EFT tapping membership, we're exploring this exact topic in our Money Date: Let Go of the How. Come tap with me and start shifting your relationship with control, surrender, and receiving. Start your 7-day free trial: https://dreamawaymembership.com/join 💗

Sessions mentioned in this episode — find them inside Dreamaway: Money Date: Let Go of the How: https://dreamawaymembership.com/programs/letgoofthehow?category_id=294323 Boomerang Stabilizer: https://dreamawaymembership.com/programs/boomerang-stabilizer

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You know that thing you've been wanting to do FOREVER? The habit you keep meaning to start, the project you know would change your life, the thing you KNOW would make you feel so much better… and yet, for some reason, you just keep putting it off??? 👀

Today we're getting to the bottom of WHY - and I have ONE sole intention for this episode: to completely change the way you think about consistency, procrastination, and self-sabotage..and then for you to get up and go DO THE THING!!! Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/7d5Y4uUMtl8

We're getting into alllll of it: the hidden costs your brain associates with changing your habits, the rebellious inner teenager who wants absolutely NOTHING to do with another obligation (lol), the perfectionist who thinks starting something means committing to it forever, and the protective part of you that might actually be a little nervous about how much your life could change.

I'm also sharing my own experiences with getting back into running, going over a month without scrolling (!!), and completely changing my relationship with consistency after years of feeling like routine just wasn't my thing.

We're talking about making the things you WANT to do feel so much more fun, natural, exciting, and aligned with who you actually are. So think of that ONE thing you've been putting off, grab your journal if you want, and let's get you into a completely different headspace about it. Because you deserve to experience what happens when you say OK LET'S GO. 🥹💗

✨ Inside Dreamaway, my tapping and subconscious transformation membership, we have two sessions that are PERFECT for this episode: Consistency and It's Allowed to Be Fun. Both are available in the Aligned tier, so you can explore the resistance that's been coming up and start creating a completely different relationship with showing up for yourself TOTALLY FREE - Start your 7-day free trial: https://www.dreamawaymembership.com

Wanna go deeper? There's also a brand new 90 min replay called "Vibrance from Within: Healthy Habits." Access in Higher Self or purchase as a standalone: https://dreamawaymembership.com/programs/vibrancefromwithin

Love you guys!!! Now go do the thing! 💛

Mentioned previous pod ep of moving from self-optimization: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/big-conversations-with-haley-hoffman-smith/id1494643478?i=1000772961163

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What if the secret to attracting everything you want is to stop feeling like you NEED any of it? ✨ Welcome to your MAGNETISM MASTERCLASS!!! Today we're getting into one of my all-time favorite energetic principles: "in your neediness, you repel; in your completeness, you attract." (Abraham Hicks). Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/gzDt52f1lzw

We're talking about the difference between wanting something and NEEDING it, why trying to force an outcome can leave you feeling even further away from it, and how to move into what I call completion energy: that delicious, peaceful, abundant feeling of knowing your life is already SO full, even while you're excited about everything that's still to come. Grab your journal, go on a walk, or just press play and let yourself get into a completely different energy. We're entering RECEIVING MODE, my friends!!! 💗✨ Want to take this work even deeper? Come join us inside Dreamaway, my tapping and subconscious transformation membership, where we work on shifting the beliefs, patterns, and self-image that shape how you experience your life. ✨

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