You’re confident everywhere else in your life.
But when it comes to sex, you go quiet.

If you’re a woman over 50 feeling bored, disconnected, or unsatisfied in bed—and terrified to ask for what you want—this episode names exactly why.

Your desire didn’t disappear.
Your voice shut down.

In this episode of Sexy After 50, I explain why so many capable, accomplished women struggle to speak up about sex, even in long-term relationships—and how that silence quietly leads to:

• Low libido
• Sexless or routine intimacy
• Emotional disconnection
• Shame around desire and pleasure

You’ll learn how nervous system conditioning, fear of rejection, and a blocked throat chakra make sexual communication feel unsafe—no matter how loving your partner is.

This is not about techniques or tips.
It’s about why your body freezes when it’s time to speak.

By the end of this episode, you’ll understand:

• Why women who communicate sexual needs report 58% higher sexual satisfaction
• Why hoping your partner will “just know” keeps intimacy stuck
• Why sexual conversations must happen outside the bedroom
• The exact Sandwich Script that lets you ask for more foreplay, slower sex, or something new—without blame, awkwardness, or shame

If you’ve ever thought, “I don’t want to hurt his feelings” or “It’s too late to change things now,” this episode explains what’s really happening—and what actually works.

Listen now and learn how to speak your desires with clarity, safety, and confidence.

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Your desire isn’t too much.
And it’s not too late.

Dr. Juls

Sexy After 50 is a podcast for women over 50 navigating low libido, sexless marriage, intimacy struggles, hormonal changes, and feeling disconnected or unwanted, offering nervous system–based somatic healing, sexual communication tools, throat chakra activation, and emotional connection practices to restore desire, pleasure, and confidence.

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