Kail and Becky are back with their energy at an all-time high, complete with Dave’s Hot Chicken cravings, an outfit that has everyone spiraling, and the kind of random conversation whiplash that you've come to know and love.

In this episode, they get into BookTok habits, nostalgia over digital cameras and MySpace-era chaos, and a deeper question about memory, identity, and who really knows you best. They also touch on parenting perspective shifts, friendship effort, and why 2026 is about getting more intentional-especially when it comes to creative projects and choosing what deserves your time.

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Karma & Chaos is back, baby and 2026 is already unhinged. Kail and Becky are finally recording in person (a 2026 priority) and catching up on everything they’ve been saving for the mic: the return of “controversial Kail,” co-parenting chaos, and what happens when the internet is already talking…

Plus, the girls tease big travel plans, things get unexpectedly soft about parenting moments that hit you right in the chest, and spiral into their favorite kind of nonsense from BookTok to the wild world of side hustles that absolutely did not need to exist (but here we are).

And of course, it’s not an episode without an Is It Karma or Is It Chaos? This week’s submission: would you date a grown man who shares his location with his mom… and she actually uses it?

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Kail and Becky kick off Karma & Chaos what they're hoping for the year to come then the ladies recap the Dream Drive, a Bucks County event supporting foster kids with a Christmas breakfast, Santa photos, and sponsored wish lists plus how Lux and Elliot helped and what it teaches kids about empathy and privilege. Then they dive into the money conversations everyone has opinions on: living paycheck to paycheck, spending habits, saving vs. investing, setting kids up financially, and where to draw the line when lending out cash.

The girls close out the episode with an Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos about dad getting the kids riled up before bed.

In true karma and chaos fashion there is a conversation for everyone, from executing plans to saving for them we have it all for you this week!

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Kail and Becky are back for a classic “we’re just yapping” episode that turns into everything from book talk and the great “DNF” debate, to a full breakdown of Kail’s new content house (aka the work HQ + guest crash pad).

They dig into listener questions with real-life honesty: how to be a calmer mom when you’re overstimulated, why Kail says yes to her kids’ activities. Then the conversation takes a deeper turn into grief during the holidays, balancing sadness with joy, and protecting your peace when family relationships are complicated.

Plus: dream vacations , 2026 goals, and one listener email that has everyone emotional because Derek from is out here raising the bar for husbands everywhere.

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spent together. With Becky stepping into mommy duties and Kail expanding her businesses and her driveway there is a ton to catch up on. This week the ladies are joined by a live studio audience making for a really chaotic and fun time. There is plenty of chaos in this episode!

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Coming to your from Kail's office aka Kail's house, meaning anything can happen! Becky and Kail talk about celebrating Christmas and how it's evolved (or not) throughout the years. Becky talks about meeting Elijah for the first time and reuniting with Kail's kids.

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Snow day’s got nothing on this episode. Kail and Becky kick off this week's episode with real-life mom chaos: sleep deprivation, jet-lagged babies, fever dreams that feel way too real, and the whiplash of going from “easy baby” to “I’m about to lose my mind.” From there, they get honest about how parenthood can shift friendships, identity, and even your relationship with your partner; these are the parts people don’t always say out loud, especially during the holidays.

They also dive into building traditions, navigating the guilt of not showing up the same way for friends once kids enter the picture, and why the “village” feels harder to find than ever.

To wrap it up, Kail and Becky tackle a wild “Karma or Chaos” submission from a veterinary nurse facing a moral dilemma: protect a brand-new business or report a vet for questionable (and potentially illegal) practices. It’s messy, funny, empathetic, and very Karma and Chaos.

Listen now for relatable motherhood talk, unfiltered friendship conversations, and a moral debate that’ll have you yelling at your speaker.

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It’s been way too long, so Kail and Becky finally sit down for a real catch-up and nothing is off limits. From seasonal depression and holiday heaviness to Kail’s entire house getting hit with influenza A, the girls get honest about what this time of year actually feels like behind the highlight reels.

Kail opens up about the emotional (and literal) weight of five-hour custody drives, missing kid events, and trying to hold it all together with seven kids and nonstop sports. Becky shares updates on baby Becks Florida travels, her changing relationship with motherhood, and why Miss Rachel absolutely counts as survival.

The conversation spirals (in the best way) into audiobook commitments, Barnes & Noble rebrands, kid milestones, performative good deeds, fake influencers, childhood letters to soldiers, and reminiscing on Becky's Uber days?

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It’s chaotic. It’s comforting. It’s exactly why you’re here.

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