Sex education can feel awkward, overwhelming, or even taboo for many parents, especially when they are raising neurodivergent children and already navigating so many daily demands.
In this episode, Brian talks with Cath Hakanson, founder of Sex Ed Rescue, about how parents can approach sex education in practical, shame-free, and neurodiversity-affirming ways. Cath explains why sex education is not one big "talk," but a series of everyday conversations about bodies, safety, relationships, consent, privacy, values, and trust.
Cath shares how parents can become more "askable," why honest answers help build safety, and how conversations about body boundaries and consent can support autistic and neurodivergent children as they grow. This conversation is warm, direct, and grounded in real life, helping parents understand that they are probably already teaching sex ed in small ways, even if they do not realize it yet.
Topics Covered
• Why sex education starts earlier than many parents think
• How to become an "askable parent"
• Why honest, age-appropriate answers build trust
• Teaching consent, body boundaries, and privacy
• Supporting autistic and neurodivergent children with explicit teaching
• Why information is not permission
• Helping children feel safe, informed, and respected
Memorable Quote
"Information isn't permission. It actually empowers kids."
About the Guest
Cath Hakanson is an autistic ADHDer, parent of neurodivergent children, and founder of Sex Ed Rescue. She helps parents approach sex education in practical, shame-free ways that support safety, trust, consent, and healthy relationships.
Resources Mentioned
Sex Ed Rescue:
https://sexedrescue.com/
Sex Ed Shop:
https://sexedshop.com/
Sex Ed Membership for Parents:
https://sexedshop.com/products/sex-ed-membership
SECCA:
https://www.secca.org.au/
Cath Hakanson on Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/cathhakanson
Cath Hakanson on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/sexedrescue/
Cath Hakanson on LinkedIn:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/cathhakanson/
About the Host
Brian Keene is an occupational therapist and founder of Pure Hearts Therapy, a neurodiversity-affirming pediatric therapy practice supporting children and families through home-based occupational therapy, speech therapy, physical therapy, and parent support in Arizona.
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