In 2026, dating and relationships for women aren’t just private anymore — they’re public, viral, and full of friendfluence on steroids. Your group chat used to be the vibe check; now it’s thousands of strangers in the comments dropping “you’re not crazy,” spotting red flags, and turning leaving a bad situation into a movement.

Robin and Deborah break down the magic (collective storytelling, contagious empowerment, “girl, same” moments) and the mess (absolute advice, surveillance pressure, blurred support vs. judgment). We share relatable stories, debate classy vs. crass online dynamics, and talk about healthy ways to take the wisdom without the unsolicited verdicts.

Whether you’ve posted for advice or watched a stranger’s story change your life, this episode is your guide to navigating the hype squad era without losing your voice.

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Submit your friendfluence wins, fails, or viral moments: artofclassiness@gmail.com

Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

Ever notice how making new friends as a grown woman feels exactly like dating — minus the romance? From the awkward first coffee “dates” and overthinking texts to the slow fades and quiet ghosting, adult friendship is full of the same vulnerability, hope, and second-guessing we know all too well.

In this episode, Robin and Deborah break down why finding your people feels harder now, how it mirrors dating at every stage (mindset, exposure, follow-ups, red flags), and the practical, classy ways to put yourself out there without losing your mind.

Whether you’re quietly craving deeper connections or recovering from a friendship fizzler, this one’s for you — because you’re not bad at this, you’re just dating for friends. And it’s awkward, brave, and totally worth it.

Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassiness

Submit your friendship dating wins (or horror stories): artofclassiness@gmail.com

Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

Get ready for the most unhinged game of Would You Rather we’ve ever played. Robin and Deborah dive into high-stakes, scream-laugh dilemmas that range from gross body betrayals (sneezing glitter vs. crying ranch dressing) to social exposure nightmares (friends hearing your annoyed inner monologue) to soul-crushing life trade-offs (eternal youth vs. perfect health, career success vs. deep friendships).

We debate every impossible choice, overshare our own fears, and judge which option is the classier survival move. This one’s equal parts hilarious chaos and accidental therapy — perfect for anyone who’s ever lain awake wondering what they’d actually pick.

Warning: You’ll be texting your group chat your answers by the end.

Connect with us @artofclassiness on Instagram and TikTok.

Submit your own Would You Rather nightmares: artofclassiness@gmail.com

Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!