Your friend is late. Again. Do you sit there stewing, or do you look up and start noticing the magic of the environment you're in, instead?

This week Val and Charlie go deep on one value that shapes every relationship you have: flexibility. When your values line up with the people around you, whether that’s a partner, a friend or a business collaborator, things flow with more ease. When they don’t, tension creeps in.

Val shares what happened when she came home from six weeks of travel and asked a friend staying in her space to find somewhere else for a few days. Her friend said she was easy either way; Val knew she wasn’t. Holding that boundary was the most loving choice for both of them.

Charlie shares the three little words she’s lived by long before Human Design or astrology came into her life... assume good intent.

In this episode

• The high road and the low road of flexibility: open and adaptable on one side, boundaryless and airy fairy on the other
• Why Charlie surrounds herself with people she can always assume good intent with
• How to look at where you’re inflexible from the witness perspective, without shame or judgement
• Val’s twenties, swinging between no boundaries at all and total rigidity, and what that taught her about balance
• Cardinal, fixed and mutable energy in astrology, and how Val’s spark meets Charlie’s fixed energy so ideas actually take form
• Human Design: defined centres as your brick wall, open centres as places of receptivity, and why the white space in your chart is where your wisdom lives

Watch on YouTube here https://www.youtube.com/@sacredpathlifestyle to see the charts Charlie shares during the episode.

Your reflection this week: Where are you flexible? Where are you inflexible? And where do the people closest to you sit on each?

Next time, we’re planning to explore expansiveness. Subscribe so you don’t miss it, and tell us what came up for you.

Find out the dates of the next cohort here: https://www.sacredpathlifestyle.com/the-next-chapter

Connect with Charlie Garnham
Website: charliegarnham.com
YouTube: www.youtube.com/@charliegarnham/videos

Connect with Val D’Ambrosio
Website: https://www.sacredpathlifestyle.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sacredpathlifestyle/

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