You're accountable for the customer relationship, but you control almost none of the resources that deliver it. That gap is where key account managers go to die.

Chasing, begging, negotiating favours with colleagues just so you can do your job. It's not incompetence, it's the system. This episode explains what's actually going on and gives you practical ways to build influence without authority — and stop feeling like the enemy is inside the building.

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HIGHLIGHTS

• (00:00) The scenario that kills key accounts — chasing ops, begging product, fighting finance
• (00:49) Why internal coordination is so hard — it's structural, not personal
• (01:35) "Loose coupling" — why separate functions don't automatically add up to a good customer experience
• (02:38) Reframe: you're not begging — you're practising influence without authority (and that's a leadership skill)
• (03:25) Move #1: understand their world before you ask for anything
• (03:55) Move #2: build relationship equity before you need to spend it
• (04:13) Move #3: make things easier, not harder — come with solutions, not just problems
• (04:50) Move #4: make their contribution visible — recognition is currency, spend it generously
• (06:26) How to decide which internal battles are worth fighting — and which to work around
• (08:08) What good looks like for leaders: coordination mechanisms, aligned incentives, and air cover for KAMs

NEXT STEPS

Pick one internal relationship that's currently transactional and do this:

• Identify someone you only contact when you need something
• Send a message today: "I'd love 15 minutes to understand what you're juggling right now"
• In that conversation, ask about their challenges — don't pitch yours
• After the next win, make their contribution visible — an email, a shout-out, something small with big ROI

RESOURCES

• Book: Increasing Your Influence at Work for Dummies https://amzn.to/4bYfPS0

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