What does it really take to build a healthy relationship?

I'm joined by Sara Slaybaugh, a Christian dating and relationship coach who knows firsthand what it's like to navigate divorce, singleness, and dating again.

We're talking about finding your identity in Christ, healing from past relationships, recognizing red flags, and understanding the difference between self-sabotage and genuine concerns.

We also discuss why learning to enjoy your life as a single person matters, whether marriage is in your future or not.

Connect with Sara:

Modern Dating Guide: https://saraslaybaugh.com/moderndatingguide

Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/datingandrelationshipcoachingforchristianwomen

Connect with Tiffany:

Website: https://www.anepiphanywithtiffany.com

Join the Epiphany Tribe: https://www.facebook.com/groups/epiphanytribe

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Instagram: @anepiphanywithtiffany

Tiffany's Instagram: @heyitstiffanykelly

What happens when life doesn't go the way you expected? When the doors keep closing, your plans fall apart, and God keeps asking you to trust Him?

In this episode of An Epiphany with Tiffany, I'm joined by Wesley Farnsworth, author, speaker, preacher, and host of Unmasked with Wesley Farnsworth.

Wesley shares how seasons of unemployment, addiction recovery, and unexpected challenges have shaped his faith and taught him to surrender control. We talk about learning to trust God without knowing the next step, finding freedom from shame, and why our past doesn't have to define our future.

We also discuss the importance of community, being intentional about who we share our stories with, and finding the courage to be vulnerable. I share some of my own experiences with uncertainty, moving back to California, and the process of publishing my first book.

If you're navigating an unexpected season, struggling to let go of control, or wondering what God is doing in your life, I hope this conversation encourages you to keep moving forward in faith.

Connect with Wesley Farnsworth

Website: https://wesleyfarnsworth.com/start

Podcast: Unmasked with Wesley Farnsworth

Books: The Blueprint of Becoming and When Faith Meets Fire

Connect with Tiffany

Website: https://www.anepiphanywithtiffany.com

Work with Tiffany: https://www.anepiphanywithtiffany.com/work-with-tiffany

Invite Tiffany to Speak or Be a Guest: https://www.anepiphanywithtiffany.com/invite-tiffany

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If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who might need to hear it.

I'm Tiffany, and I hope you just had an epiphany!

What happens when the dream finally happens...but it doesn't look anything like you imagined?

Author Wendy Bower spent years dreaming of writing a book. But when she finally signed her publishing contract, she found herself grieving because she'd always imagined experiencing that moment with a husband beside her.

In this episode, Wendy and I talk about pursuing the things God has placed in us even when our lives don't look the way we expected.

We talk about singleness, healing, marriage, identity, and the work God can do in us before another person ever enters the picture. Wendy also shares how her relationship with God changed when she began recognizing His love in everyday things, including something as simple as color.

During one of the lowest seasons after her divorce, Wendy saw a group of purple irises, her favorite color and favorite flower, and experienced them as a personal reminder that God saw and loved her. That moment began a journey of noticing His love through colors, nature, and the world around her.

We also get into the difference between knowing in your head that God loves you and actually knowing it deeply enough to live from it, something both Wendy and I have experienced in our own lives.

And maybe one of the biggest reminders from this conversation:

You don't have to wait for marriage to become who God is calling you to be.

Wendy's book Gratitude Attack is available through Christian book retailers, and you can learn more about Wendy and find her resources at authorwendybower.com.

I'm Tiffany, and I hope you just had an epiphany!

What does it actually mean to actively wait on God?

For many of us, waiting can feel frustrating, lonely, or uncertain. But what if waiting isn't about standing still? What if it's an invitation to grow, serve, and become the person God is shaping you to be?

In this episode of An Epiphany with Tiffany, Tiffany sits down with Kerry Damiano for a conversation about trusting God's timing, embracing the season you're in, and discovering purpose beyond the milestones we often chase.

Kerry shares stories from her own journey, including decades of serving through pageantry, Scripture memorization, and ministry. Together, they explore what it looks like to surrender control, pursue spiritual growth, and live with joy while waiting on whatever God has next.

Whether you're single, navigating a season of transition, or simply learning to trust God with the unknown, this conversation will encourage you to stop putting your life on hold and start living faithfully today.

Website: https://kerrydamiano.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kerrymsworldtraveler?igsh=NXlkeWtoc25vcnE0

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ms.worldtraveler5897

If you are interested in being on the show, please reach out to me at Tiffany@AnEpiphanywithtiffany.com.

You can find all of my links here: https://linktr.ee/Anepiphwithtiff

Thanks for listening! I hope you have enjoyed the stories and perspectives shared in this episode. Please share this episode with a friend who could use this encouragement today.

If you'd like to connect with me, you can find me on Instagram, TikTok, and Threads @AnEpiphanywithTiffany.

There are multiple ways you can support the show. You can pray for me, rate, review, and share any episode you love, or you can financially support the podcast by becoming a patron at: https://patreon.com/Anepiphanywithtiffany

Until next time, I'm Tiffany, and I hope you just had an epiphany!

What if the season you're in isn't a setback—but preparation?

In this episode, I sit down with Kate Massey to talk about trusting God when life doesn't unfold the way we expected. Together, we explore what it means to walk in obedience, embrace community, and believe that God is working even when we can't yet see the full picture.

This conversation is full of hope for anyone navigating singleness, disappointment, unexpected detours, or simply trying to trust God's process one step at a time.

Topics include:

• Purpose in difficult seasons
• Obedience over comfort
• Building healthy community
• Trusting God's timing
• Singleness and spiritual growth
• Letting go of control
• Living with hope

Connect with Kate Massey

Website: https://www.katemassey.org/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katemasseywrites/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@katemasseywrites

If you are interested in being on the show, please reach out to me at Tiffany@AnEpiphanywithtiffany.com. You can also find all my links here: https://linktr.ee/Anepiphwithtiff

Thanks for listening! I hope you have enjoyed the stories and the perspectives shared in this episode. Please share it with a friend whose dating life might need some help. If you want to connect with me on social media, you can find me on Instagram, TikTok, and Threads @AnEpiphanywithTiffany.

There are multiple ways you can support my show. You can pray for me, rate, review, and share any episode you love, or you can financially contribute by going to patreon.com/Anepiphanywithtiffany.

Until next time, I'm Tiffany, and I hope you just had an epiphany!

What if rest isn't something you have to earn?

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Benjamin Long to explore the biblical significance of rest and why so many of us struggle to embrace it. We discuss burnout, sleep, anxiety, trust, and how God's design for our lives includes rhythms of work and restoration.

If you've been feeling overwhelmed or constantly exhausted, this conversation will challenge the way you think about productivity and remind you that rest isn't laziness—it's an invitation to trust God more deeply.

Topics include:

• Sleep as a spiritual discipline
• Faith and burnout
• Trusting God
• Anxiety and control
• Biblical rest
• Healthy rhythms
• Living with peace

Connect with Dr. Benjamin Long:

Website: https://thewholeheartedmd.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thewholeheartedmd/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thewholeheartedmd

If you are interested in being on the show, please reach out to me at Tiffany@AnEpiphanywithtiffany.com. You can also find all my links here: https://linktr.ee/Anepiphwithtiff

Thanks for listening! I hope you have enjoyed the stories and the perspectives shared in this episode. Please share it with a friend whose dating life might need some help. If you want to connect with me on social media, you can find me on Instagram, TikTok, and Threads @AnEpiphanywithTiffany.

There are multiple ways you can support my show. You can pray for me, rate, review, and share any episode you love, or you can financially contribute by going to patreon.com/Anepiphanywithtiffany.

Until next time, I'm Tiffany, and I hope you just had an epiphany!

What if the waiting season isn't something to survive—but something to embrace?

In this episode, I sit down with Sonya to talk about one of the biggest struggles many Christian singles face: waiting.

Together we unpack what it means to trust God's timing, build your identity before marriage, cultivate healthy community, and stop putting your life on hold while waiting for the future you hope for.

This conversation is full of wisdom, encouragement, and practical reminders that God is still moving—even when it feels like nothing is happening.

Topics include: • Identity before marriage • Purpose in singleness • Healthy community • God's timing • Obedience • Waiting well • Living fully today

Connect with Sonya:

Instagram: @shiftwithsonya

YouTube: Shift with Sonya

If you are interested in being on the show, please reach out to me at Tiffany@AnEpiphanywithtiffany.com. You can also find all my links here: https://linktr.ee/Anepiphwithtiff

Thanks for listening! I hope you have enjoyed the stories and the perspectives shared in this episode. Please share it with a friend whose dating life might need some help. If you want to connect with me on social media, you can find me on Instagram, TikTok, and Threads @AnEpiphanywithTiffany.

There are multiple ways you can support my show. You can pray for me, rate, review, and share any episode you love, or you can financially contribute by going to patreon.com/Anepiphanywithtiffany.

Until next time, I'm Tiffany, and I hope you just had an epiphany!

For years, I believed marriage was the finish line. Maybe not consciously, but somewhere deep down, I had built this idea that becoming a wife and mom was what I was waiting for. And while I still deeply desire those things, the Lord has been challenging me in a big way lately.

What if marriage isn't the ultimate goal?

In this solo episode, I’m sharing a very personal conversation around identity, singleness, purpose, and some of the things God has been revealing to me recently. I’m opening up about my own struggles with identity, ways that dating and future expectations quietly became idols in my life, and why I believe so many Christian singles are living with unnecessary pressure.

We’re talking about:

• Why marriage was never meant to define your worth • How relationship goals can unintentionally become idols • My own journey with identity and feeling "forgettable" • What God has been revealing through this season of transition • The story and vision behind the Forerunner Cohort • Living fully instead of putting life on hold

Whether you're a Christian single 30+, someone trying to rediscover your identity, or someone simply asking, "God, what are You doing in my life right now?" this episode is for you.

I also share more about the vision behind the Epiphany Tribe Facebook community, a place for Christian singles 30+ who want genuine connection, real conversations, and a space to learn how to live life well right now instead of waiting for life to begin.

If something in this episode resonates with you, send me a message. I would love to hear your story.

Join the Epiphany Tribe Facebook group and come connect with us: https://www.facebook.com/groups/epiphanytribe

If you are interested in being on my show, please reach out to me at Tiffany@AnEpiphanywithtiffany.com.

Thanks for listening! I hope you have enjoyed the stories and perspectives shared in this episode. Please share it with a friend whose dating life or identity journey might need some encouragement.

If you want to connect with me on social media, you can find me on Instagram and TikTok @AnEpiphanyWithTiffany.

Until next time, I’m Tiffany, and I hope you just had an epiphany!