Hey Believers, in this video, I take full accountability for a decision I made that hurt my wife. I acted in a selfish moment, focusing on what I wanted rather than what was best for us. I didn’t pray before making the decision. I didn’t pause. I didn’t go through the proper steps or channels that honor marriage. And that lack of consideration caused pain.

Marriage requires intention, prayer, communication, and selflessness. When we move without God, without counsel, and without considering our spouse, we risk breaking trust and unity. This conversation is not about excuses—it’s about ownership, repentance, and growth as a husband.

If you’re married, engaged, or preparing for marriage, this message is a reminder that every decision—especially financial and personal ones—should be made with wisdom, prayer, and love. Growth begins when we are honest about where we fell short and choose to do better.

This video is for husbands who want to lead better, love deeper, and walk in accountability.

Remember, it's Allan & Eve here to help you believe that marriage is not a game!!!

Child support in blended families is one of the most misunderstood and emotionally charged topics in marriage. In this video, we address a hard truth many couples avoid: what happens when the other parent does not pay child support, and the responsibility quietly shifts onto the marriage?

If you are married to someone who has children from a previous relationship, this conversation matters. When one parent fails to fulfill their legal and moral responsibilities, that burden often falls on the new household. At that point, it is no longer “his problem” or “her problem”—it becomes a team issue.

Marriage is not about keeping score. It is about unity, sacrifice, and walking in maturity. If you expect someone to help raise children brought into the marriage, you cannot reject the financial realities that come with that responsibility.

This message is for husbands, wives, step-parents, and anyone navigating blended family dynamics with wisdom, truth, and accountability.

📌 Watch, reflect, and share with someone who needs this conversation.

Marriage requires mutual respect, boundaries, and accountability—especially when it comes to exes and social media.

If your spouse tells you they are uncomfortable with you remaining friends with an ex, and you ignore them, continue anyway, and expect the marriage to be healthy… that is not love—that is disregard.

You cannot dismiss your partner’s feelings, cross clear boundaries, and then expect peace, trust, and unity in your marriage. That behavior creates confusion, insecurity, and division. A marriage cannot thrive when one spouse chooses their own comfort over their partner’s peace.

This video breaks down:

• Why staying connected to exes while married is inappropriate
• Why “I don’t see an issue” is not a valid excuse
• How ignoring boundaries damages trust
• Why mutual sacrifice is essential in marriage
• The role of respect, unity, and accountability between spouses

Marriage is not about doing whatever you want and asking your partner to “just understand.” Marriage is about honor, oneness, and the protection of the covenant.

Remember, it's Allan & Eve here to help you believe that marriage is not a game!!!