When I was a kid, I thought adults had everything figured out.

Then I became an adult.

In this episode, I'm talking about entrepreneurship, relationships, careers, life changes, and the realization that nobody actually knows what they're doing. We're all learning as we go, making mistakes, pivoting, and figuring things out one step at a time.

If you've ever felt behind, overwhelmed, or like everyone else got the instruction manual except you, this episode is for you.

Give yourself grace. You're not alone.

I want to hear from the Sources.

Tell me about a time you were just figuring it out. Maybe you started a business, changed careers, moved somewhere new, started a relationship, or took a leap without knowing exactly how it would work out.

Submit your alleged stories at www.allegedlyts.com and you may be featured in a future episode.

— The Source

What if I took away your job title, your degree, your house, and your car?

Who are you?

In this episode, I'm sharing why I think being interesting is better than being impressive, how we've confused accomplishments with identity, and why the stories we collect matter more than the things we own.

We'll talk about success, freedom, travel, happiness, and the question I can't stop thinking about:

What stories am I collecting?

Because at the end of the day, nobody remembers your résumé. They remember your stories.

🎙️ I want to hear from the Sources.

If someone took away your job title, your degree, your house, and your car... who are you? What story would you tell?

Submit your alleged stories at www.allegedlyts.com and you may be featured in a future episode.

As always, thank you for listening.

— The Source

We sold our house to chase freedom… and immediately questioned every decision we had ever made.

In this episode, I’m talking about the chaos of RV life: freezing winters, terrifying parking situations, broken levelers, cat litter everywhere, propane disasters, neighbors, panic, and the reality of taking a leap before you feel ready.

Honestly? I’d probably still do it again.

If any of you sources out there have a story about a time you took the leap, I want to hear about it. You can submit it on my website at Submit a Story — Allegedly.

For a long time, I thought I wanted the “normal” life.

The career.The house.The relationship that looked right on paper.

But after losing my mom, something inside me started to unravel.

In this episode, I talk about grief, coming out, falling in love, buying a house, selling everything to move into an RV, and the realization that I had been building a life that didn’t actually fit me.

This episode is about what happens when grief forces you to ask:

“What are we living for?”

And what happens when you finally start listening to the answer.

If you have a story you’d like me to read on the pod, submit it at: www.allegedlyts.com

This is Allegedly.And I am The Source.

I didn’t realize how much this affected me… until I started looking back.

For a long time, I felt like I was never anyone’s first choice…
and I thought that meant something was wrong with me.

In this episode, I’m sharing the friendships that shaped me—from high school to my twenties—and the moments that made me question everything about who I was.

But this isn’t just about losing people…
it’s about what happens when you finally realize you were never the problem.

If you’ve ever felt like you were “too much” or not enough at the same time, this one’s for you.

Have a story you want featured on the podcast?Submit it here: www.allegedlyts.com

This is Allegedly.I’m The Source.

In the last episode, we talked about toggling.
The different versions of ourselves we step into depending on where we are and who we’re with.

This episode is about one of those versions.

The calm one.

The one who doesn’t escalate.
The one who keeps things steady.
The one people rely on.

The one who gets very tired.

In this episode, I talk about what it really means to be “the calm one”—and how it can quietly turn into something else.

Something that looks like strength on the outside…
But feels like carrying things that were never yours to hold.

This is Allegedly.
And I’m The Source.

Submit your stories on my website: Submit a Story — Allegedly

This is Allegedly.

The version of you that shows up.
The version that holds it together.
The version people don’t worry about.

But what happens when that version starts to feel… off?

In this first episode, we explore the idea of the “versions” we carry—and the quiet ways we learn to minimize our needs, even in moments where nothing is being asked of us.

Sometimes it doesn’t show up in big ways.

Sometimes it looks like something as small as… coffee.

📝 Have a story of your own?Submit it anonymously at Allegedly