We talk with Marcie Stokman and Margherita Vezzani about restoring family meals, choosing relationship over perfection, and what ordinary tables can teach us.

Earlier this year, Jennifer narrated the audiobook for A Cloth Upon the Table, which hit a nerve because cooking and serving family meals have never been an easy part of her vocation. We invited authors Marcie Stokman and Margherita Vezzani to talk about why family meals are disappearing and what we lose when eating together becomes optional.

Marcie explains how a tablecloth changed the way she saw an ordinary meal, while Margherita describes the cloth itself as a sign that everyone shares the same space. We also talk about hospitality versus entertaining, the pressure to make a home look perfect, the role husbands can play, and what happened when our children returned to the table after dinner was already over. The point isn't to create a magazine-worthy table. It's to begin with the family, friends, food, stains, and imperfect circumstances we already have.

Links Mentioned:

• Get the Book - A Cloth Upon the Table

• Well Read Mom

• Barefoot Homemade

• Barefoot Homemade on Instagram

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Greg's Latest Book (God Doesn't Hate Me After All – Discovering Louis de Montfort's Love of Eternal Wisdom):

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• Greg's serialized novel
• Contact & Speaking Engagements

Timestamps

00:00 A real-life look at our dinner table
01:14 Introducing A Cloth Upon the Table
04:18 Why family meals are disappearing
08:31 Start where you are
11:05 A tablecloth changes Marcie's view of meals
14:38 Why one cloth can symbolize unity
20:19 Hospitality versus entertaining
25:42 Choosing relationship over perfection
29:13 What changed at our family table
33:34 Formation, fathers, and conflict at the table

We take a closer look at "our daily bread" and how what God has already given us might help us recognize and do his will. ___

Our often crowded Rosary Army task lists raise a practical question: how do we tell which good ideas are actually the work God wants us to do? Some responsibilities and tasks come from our own ideas, while others come to us through people and circumstances we did not necessarily pursue. As we tried to discern which projects and tasks to take on, we were brought back to the Our Father, where "thy will be done" comes immediately before the request for daily bread.

This is what we decided to tackle in this episode: our daily bread is more than just food and shelter or even a list of desired outcomes. Depending on our seasons of life, our daily bread can be the grace, time, talent, relationships, work, and even suffering already present today. The Catechism's explanation of "give us" points to the trust of children who depend on their Father without using that trust as an excuse for idleness. We talk about that trust, seeking God's will, and also (obviously) connect daily bread to the Eucharist, the Word of God, and the Rosary as we ask what it means to use what God has already given us.

Free From Rosary Army:

• Free All-Twine-Knotted Rosaries
• School of Mary
• Audio Rosary Podcast
• Video Version of this Episode

Subscribe to the Podcast:

• Spotify
• Apple Podcasts

Greg's Latest Book (God Doesn't Hate Me After All – Discovering Louis de Montfort's Love of Eternal Wisdom):

• Download Free Sample Chapters
• Buy on Amazon
• Buy on Audible
• Buy from Sophia Institute Press

More From Rosary Army and Greg & Jennifer Willits:

• Rosary Army Mobile App
• Greg's serialized novel
• Contact & Speaking Engagements

Timestamps

00:00 October Rosaries, coffee, and fellowship
02:18 Fourteen years since The Catholics Next Door
06:37 Which Rosary Army projects actually matter?
10:15 "Thy will be done" and daily bread
12:23 When requests from others clarify priorities
14:37 Daily bread for every station of life
16:09 Stewardship of time, talent, and treasure
20:07 Finding daily bread in family life
23:28 The Catechism on "give us our bread"
26:06 The Eucharist, the Word of God, and the Rosary

Greg and Jennifer wrestle with why God allows suffering, what it means to offer it up, and how to carry an unwanted cross with Christ.

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After a fractured molar is removed and the implant process leaves him without a tooth for a few months, Greg admits how quickly physical pain can turn "offer it up" into something harder than a Catholic catchphrase. He and Jennifer connect that fresh experience to other crosses they have faced, including the pain of watching their adult children struggle and the pressures surrounding Rosary Army. Greg keeps asking why it is happening and whether the pain can actually do any good.

Reading from I Believe in Love, Greg wrestles with the claim that happiness and suffering are inseparable, especially when suffering does not feel blessed at all. Jennifer explains why carrying a cross does not require pretending it feels joyful, but does require returning to Christ for help when we try to carry it alone. They also share newly rebuilt Rosary Army resources for praying the Rosary, preparing for total consecration, and learning to offer small and large sacrifices for others.

Check out the all-new websites:
• Rosary Army - https://www.RosaryArmy.com
• Greg and Jennifer Willits - https://www.GregandJennifer.com
• Greg Willits - https://www.GregWillits.com
• Total Consecration - https://www.TotalConsecration.com
• New Evangelizers - https://www.newevangelizers.com

Free From Rosary Army:

• Free All-Twine-Knotted Rosaries
• School of Mary
• Audio Rosary Podcast
• Video Version of this Episode

Subscribe to the Podcast:

• Spotify
• Apple Podcasts

Greg's Latest Book (God Doesn't Hate Me After All – Discovering Louis de Montfort's Love of Eternal Wisdom):

• Download Free Sample Chapters
• Buy on Amazon
• Buy on Audible
• Buy from Sophia Institute Press

More From Rosary Army and Greg & Jennifer Willits:

• Rosary Army Mobile App
• Greg's serialized novel
• Contact & Speaking Engagements

Timestamps

00:00 Greg's tooth extraction and what an implant actually means
04:09 A season of crosses behind the scenes
05:26 Why does God allow pain?
09:16 Discovering redemptive suffering
10:17 What "offer it up" means
11:48 Jesus comes with every cross
14:29 Can suffering and happiness be inseparable?
18:11 Accepting unexpected crosses
20:10 Carrying a cross badly
21:21 Finding a reason for suffering
25:16 Rosary resources and the sacrifices of prayer