Existence pain, sometimes it's hard to be here at all sometimes trying to work the whys and how's behind that doesn't do us any more Favors

a lot of the thinking here developed after reading

Loves Executioner

Do we have to understand before we love? We develop a particular type of care where we still pathologist the wants and behaviours of others who just like us might be doing the best they can. A caring pity. this time ask if there's anything a little better

That time you burst out love all over someone a bit too early.

a new year's message from a forgotten friend and us we were

Some Christmas we didn't feel the things we were supposed to. Other times we felt things only naughty boys and girls did. what about those times we were ungrateful? antisocial or didn't feel like sharing?

Maybe we learned not to tell anyone, it's okay, you can tell me. I will go first.

Perfectionism and the kid in the corner, when our virtue turned out to be fear all along, How do we break through to hit publish just a little more often?

Those intoxicating souls already comfortable in their own skin, did they already do the work? did they learn how to be this way? most often advice on how to be confident, charasamtic, or even just present centers around the external habits we see, the questions the eye contact the standing tall and paraphrasing to show understanding.

When you look a little deeper theres a handful of perceptual shifts that comfortable relaxed people have from those of us still locked in the coulda, woulda, shoulda,.

In this episode we look at those internal differences

Do we ever really 'find' ourselves? And when we do how come we were somewhere else distant from our first culture? all the episoads of the first two seasons centre around self acceptance and self discovery. Now we're ready to hear some of your story's about what it took, what it takes, to be proud the the selves you were told to be ashamed of and the steps of the journey you're yet to take. Message the show