On 28th October 2016 our beautiful son Matthew died and this year marks his 10th anniversary.

Ten years of missing him, loving him, remembering him and learning how to live in a world without him.

Grief changes us in ways we could never have imagined. Alongside the heartache, there have been unexpected gifts, moments of growth and a deeper understanding of what it means to live with loss.

In this special, very personal episode I reflect on Ten Years Without Matthew and the gifts grief has brought me.

This episode is dedicated to Matthew, who will always be part of our lives and our story.

If you're living with grief too, I hope my reflections bring you a little comfort and remind you that love doesn't end when someone dies.

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Do our loved ones really send us signs after they die? And if they do, how do we recognise them?

Following on from Part 1, I'm bringing you more moving, thought-provoking and sometimes unexpected stories from previous guests on A Gift for Grief – Life After Loss. These are personal experiences that have stayed with me, reminding me just how differently we all experience grief, and how the smallest things can sometimes carry the greatest meaning.

From unexpected encounters and meaningful coincidences to moments that seem to arrive at exactly the right time, we continue exploring one of life's biggest questions: Could our loved ones still be finding ways to connect with us after death?

The inspiration for this special two-part compilation came after listening to Steven Bartlett's conversation with neuroscientist Dr Tara Swart on The Diary of a CEO. Their discussion about consciousness, life after death and the possibility of receiving signs from those who have died prompted me to revisit some of the remarkable stories shared by guests on my own podcast.

As with Part 1, this isn't about proving anything or telling anyone what they should believe. Whether you're spiritual, religious, atheist, agnostic or simply curious, there's room here for your own thoughts, questions and experiences.

Grief is deeply personal, and so are the ways we make sense of the world after someone we love dies. For some people, these moments are unmistakable signs. For others, they may be coincidences or a source of comfort without any particular explanation. And perhaps we don't always need to have all the answers.

I'd love to hear from you.

Have you ever experienced something that made you stop and wonder whether someone you love was letting you know they were still with you? Perhaps it was a dream, an unexpected encounter, a familiar sound or something that happened at just the right moment.

I'd love to hear your story. You never know how sharing your experience might bring comfort to someone else navigating life after loss.

If you've found these conversations comforting or thought-provoking, please consider following the podcast, leaving a review and sharing this episode with someone who might appreciate it.

Thank you for listening and for being part of this growing community.

Recommended reading

Signs – Dr Tara Swart

E-Squared – Pam Grout

Signs - Laura Lynne Jackson

Mentioned in this episode

The Diary of a CEO with Steven Bartlett: https://stevenbartlett.com

Connect with your host Louise Bates - https://linktr.ee/louisebates

A Gift for Grief – Life After Loss: honest conversations about grief, love, loss and finding ways to live with life after someone dies.

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Do our loved ones really send us signs?

Can a white feather, a robin, a butterfly, or even a golf ball be more than coincidence?

In this special compilation episode I bring together some of the most moving conversations I've had with previous guests as we explore one of the questions that fascinates so many people:

Is there life after death and do our loved ones find ways to let us know they're still with us?

The inspiration for this episode came after listening to Steven Bartlett's conversation with neuroscientist Dr Tara Swart on The Diary of a CEO. Their discussion about consciousness, life after death, and the possibility of receiving signs from loved ones became one of the podcast's most listened-to episodes and inspired me to revisit the incredible stories my own guests have shared.

Whether you're a firm believer, an atheist, agnostic, spiritual, religious, or simply curious, this episode offers a wide range of honest perspectives. There are no right or wrong answers, only deeply personal experiences that have brought comfort, hope, and meaning to people living with grief.

Along the way we explore some of the signs people commonly report, including:

• White feathers
• Butterflies
• Robins
• Rainbows
• Meaningful coincidences
• Dreams
• Intuitive feelings
• Hearing a loved one's voice
• Unexpected moments that bring comfort

Ultimately, this episode isn't about proving whether the afterlife exists. It's about listening to people's experiences with an open mind and recognising the comfort these moments can bring during grief.

I'd love to hear from you...

Have you ever experienced what you believe was a sign from someone you've lost?

Was it a feather, a butterfly, a robin, a dream or something impossible to explain?

Email me and let me know. Your experience may bring comfort to someone else walking through grief.

If this episode resonated with you, I'd be incredibly grateful if you could follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with someone who may need a little hope today.

Recommended Books:

• Signs by Dr Tara Swart
• E – Squared by Pam Grout

The Diary of a CEO podcast with Steven Bartlett

https://stevenbartlett.com

If this conversation has helped you, please consider following or subscribing to A Gift For Grief. Leaving a review and sharing the episode helps these important conversations reach more people who may need them.

Connect with your host Louise: https://www.louisebates.co.uk/

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