Worried about making a mistake when choosing your surrogate? You’re not alone—one wrong decision can lead to contract battles, lost money, or broken dreams. It’s easy to get caught up in emotions and miss the subtle warning signs hiding in a profile.

In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Alyssa Small Layne reveals exactly how to choose a surrogate step-by-step: what signals caution, how to interpret health notes, and which “green flags” actually matter. Real profile examples, actionable tips, and must-ask questions will help you avoid common pitfalls—and confidently invest in the right match for your family.

🎧 Press play so you can match with clarity and peace of mind!

What You'll Learn:

00:07 — The emotional reality of reading that first surrogate profile

05:02 — Why your fertility clinic’s requirements must guide your decision

07:01 — How to anchor your preferences and stay focused

11:00 — Spotting hidden red/orange flags before it’s too late

14:41 — Surrogate compensation, double embryo transfers, and support systems

18:40 — How health history (like thyroid antibodies) should affect your choice

30:27 — Why location, insurance, and termination views are critical to “how to choose a surrogate”

44:18 — The biggest financial red flag you should never ignore

Resources Mentioned:

• BloomBridge Surrogacy App
• Surrogate vetting essentials
• Episode #66
• https://gojunie.com/podcast/episode/5
• Surrogacy BluePrint Course

Key Takeaways:

• Review both clinic and personal criteria before saying yes to a match
• State laws on termination and reproductive rights can affect your journey
• Look for consistency, honesty, and a strong support system in profiles
• Use professional guides to vet red flags and protect your investment
• Matching isn’t luck—it’s clarity, alignment, and communication
  

🎧 Want to feel confident about how to choose a surrogate?Download the Surrogate Vetting Essentials Guide on BloomBridge and start your matching journey with clarity!