Most midlife women don’t burn out because they’re doing something wrong. They burn out because they don’t know how to stop pushing.

Why does rest feel so uncomfortable for so many capable, high-functioning midlife women?

In this short solo episode, health coach and podcast host Jessica Long gets honest about burnout, nervous system conditioning, and why stepping back can feel scarier than staying exhausted. After pushing through the holidays without a real break, Jessica reflects on what midlife is asking of us now: not more effort, but more awareness.

This episode is an invitation to notice where you’re still pushing out of habit, obligation, or fear—and to consider what might become possible if you eased off, even a little.

If you’re navigating midlife while juggling work, family, hormones, and expectations (both internal and external), this conversation offers permission to pause—and a reminder that burnout isn’t a failure. It’s information.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why taking a break feels harder than staying busy in midlife

• How nervous system conditioning keeps high-achieving women stuck in overdrive

• The difference between honoring yourself and chasing arbitrary goals

• What it means to choose possibility instead of exhaustion

• A gentle invitation to take your foot off the accelerator—without guilt

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