Have you ever wondered, “Shouldn’t this be over by now?”

Do you feel confused by the back-and-forth waves of grief — doing “okay” one moment and falling apart the next?

Have you questioned whether you’re healing at all because it doesn’t look the way you thought it would?

In today’s episode, we’re talking about healing after baby loss — without timelines, pressure, or shame. Healing is often described like a destination or a finish line, but real healing looks nothing like that. It’s not quick. It’s not tidy. And it’s certainly not linear.

I share the story of a mother who asked me, “Will I ever truly feel joy again?” followed by the painful whisper, “I shouldn’t still feel like this.” Together, we explore where this idea of an “expiration date” on grief even comes from — and why it’s simply not true.

We talk about the spiraling nature of healing, how you may revisit feelings again and again, and why those moments are not setbacks but part of the sacred unfolding of grief. You’ll hear how your body holds trauma, why brain fog and fatigue show up long after others think you should be okay, and how anniversaries can bring a rush of emotion that isn’t regression but remembrance.

This episode gently reminds you: Healing isn’t forgetting. Healing isn’t moving on. Healing is learning how to carry your grief — and your love — in a new, more compassionate way. You’re not behind. You’re not failing. You’re human. And you’re still healing, even on the days you can’t feel it.

• Healing is not linear — it spirals. • Setbacks don’t mean failure. • Grief is emotional and physical. • You don’t have to “move on” to move forward. • You are still healing, even if no one sees it.

Journal Prompt: “What does healing look like for me — in this season, as I am now?”

Related Episodes:

• Episode 1: What I Wish I Heard After Losing a Baby
• Episode 3: What Grief Looks Like (Even When It’s Not Sadness)

Disclaimer: This podcast is for supportive and educational purposes only. I am not a licensed therapist. If you need professional mental health care, please reach out to a licensed therapist, grief counselor, or trusted provider.

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