What if “too late” is the wrong question and the better one is “what do I actually want now?” We dig into the midlife pivot with humor and honesty, peeling back the fear of looking foolish, the pressure to be instantly good, and the myth that everyone else got the memo on timing. From career changes to first creative attempts, we explore how to begin again without blowing up your life or your budget.

I share why podcasting became my laboratory for starting messy and staying consistent, including the reality of working without sponsors and carving out time around a day job. We talk about the real costs—money, energy, visibility—and the underrated advantages of being 40-ish: clearer boundaries, sharper instincts, and the ability to spot red flags early. You’ll hear personal stories, from my dad launching his own architecture business in his 40s to a one-year job detour that wasn’t ideal but led to friendships that changed everything. These aren’t highlight reels; they’re proof that experience is the upgrade, not the obstacle.

If you’ve been sitting on a new path—writing a script, changing fields, starting a business—we walk through reversible steps that reduce risk and build momentum: small pilots, trusted feedback, simple outreach, and a plan that respects the bills while growing your craft. The most useful reframe might be the simplest: time will pass either way. Five years from now, do you want to be wondering or living differently? Try this prompt to unlock honest desire: If it wasn’t too late, what would I let myself want?

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The waves of grief never truly stop—but they can get smaller when the logistics are clear. Author Lynn Stone joins us to share how her husband’s unexpected passing led her to create a practical, compassionate guide for end-of-life planning that puts love first. This conversation moves past stigma and superstition and into simple actions that protect the people we care about most.

We walk through the real costs families face—from funeral expenses and burial or cremation fees to the surprising price of death certificates—and why a single life insurance policy often isn’t enough. Lynn breaks down the essentials: durable and medical powers of attorney, advance directives, beneficiary reviews, and adding payable-on-death designations at the bank. She also explains why documenting passwords and digital accounts may be the single most helpful step you can take this week. Along the way, we talk about organizing important documents in a fire safe or structured file system, setting a regular review cadence, and “cross-training” at home so no one is left in the dark about bills, maintenance, or daily routines.

Beyond the checklists, Lynn speaks openly about therapy, widow support groups, and the fog that follows loss. Her story shows how preparation eases decision fatigue during the hardest days and how planning can strengthen families long before they need it. If you’ve avoided the topic because it feels scary or morbid, this episode offers a kinder frame: planning is an act of love, a way to lower the height of future waves, and a gift of peace for the people who will carry your memory forward.

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What if the uneasy feeling you can’t name isn’t a problem to fix but a signal that something new is forming? We open up about the midlife identity shift many of us feel around forty and trade the pressure to reinvent for a kinder process of remembering, editing, and choosing with intention. The roles that once defined us grow quieter, and that silence can feel like loss—until we notice the space it creates for a fuller self to step forward.

We walk through a simple reframe: you’re not lost; you’re between versions. From there, we get practical. Katie shares how returning to dance—on her terms—became a way to reconnect with joy without performing for anyone. We talk about bodies that need different care, finding movement that fits real life, and why tiny, sustainable steps beat flashy comebacks. Creativity shows up too: hand embroidery as a focused, meditative practice that invites flow, calm, and self-trust in small pockets of time.

Curiosity doesn’t stop at old loves. We dig into trying something brand new—like writing—without waiting for permission, credentials, or perfect conditions. Expect ideas for low-cost experiments through community classes, ways to rekindle learning without chasing a degree, and prompts to spot the parts of you asking to be reintroduced. If you’ve been wrestling with guilt for wanting more or feeling unsure about what comes next, this conversation offers language, tools, and a gentle nudge to start where you are.

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