If “good vibes only” has ever felt more like a rule than a choice, this episode is for you.

I’m continuing our series on the Children’s Bill of Rights with two rights that belong together: the right to express emotions in a healthy way, and the right to have all feelings tolerated.

Through two composite clients, a leader stuck in a swallow-and-explode cycle and a founder known as “the positive one” who goes blank in conflict, we look at the family rules behind these patterns and how reparenting gives the inner child someone who can finally stay.

If you’ve rewritten your offer, tried the new funnel, and you’re still giving too much and freezing when it’s time to ask to be paid, the strategy was never the problem.

In my masterclass, The 4-Step Method to Break Toxic Cycles and Become the Coach You’re Meant to Be, I show you how the patterns you learned growing up are running your business, and how to work at the root: https://nikoanab.easywebinar.live/event-registration

If you want to start working with your inner child today, my book, Healing the Inner Child with EFT Tapping, is a beautiful place to begin.

It shows you how to use tapping to stabilize your inner adult, reparent your inner child, and build the dialogue between them. It also comes with an AI companion, so you can talk to the book about what’s coming up for you personally: https://a.co/d/07q76hPe

Not sure what’s been running your business behind the scenes? My five-minute quiz, What’s Really Running Your Life and Business?, helps you name it: https://nikoanajeanne.resmind.app/quiz