179. Hard Truths About Divorce No One Warns You About
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Hard truths that can save you time, money, and sanity.
If you want the real truth about divorce, buckle up. In this episode, Andrea and Morgan deliver the unfiltered, uncomfortable, absolutely-necessary truths your lawyer wishes you understood…but might be too afraid to say directly.
From how the legal system really works to why your expectations are sabotaging your sanity, this episode is the wake-up call you need if you’re navigating divorce, co-parenting, or even just preparing for that dreaded Thanksgiving dinner with your very opinionated family.
This one is honest, hilarious, a little unhinged (hi Andrea), and packed with strategic guidance that will help you avoid major mistakes.
The legal system doesn’t care about fairness. It’s designed for equitable distribution, not emotional justice.
Morgan breaks down why the courts aren’t built to punish your ex — even when you deeply (and correctly) feel they deserve it.
Why your expectations are often unrealistic, what “the range” actually means in divorce outcomes, and how lowering your expectations protects your mental health and your wallet.
Andrea reminds listeners that different states = different standards. Don’t guess. Don’t Google. Ask your lawyer to explain what’s realistic where YOU live.
Your ex won’t suddenly transform into a better human mid-divorce. (Brenda does not become Glinda.) Focus on your responses, your regulation, and your strategy.
How to shut down intrusive family commentary (“That’s not fair!”) and exactly what to say at the holiday table when everyone wants details about your divorce.
Andrea shares her own emotional story about her first Thanksgiving without her kids, and how focusing on what she could control changed everything.
Use a communication app like OurFamilyWizard to protect yourself legally and emotionally — especially with the ToneMeter feature that stops you from sending something you’ll regret.
- The legal system is not designed to make you feel better.
- Your ex won’t change just because you’d like them to.
- Your attorney isn’t your therapist.
- Fairness is not a legal standard. Equitable is.
- Focusing on your ex keeps you stuck.
- You are responsible for asking your lawyer the right questions.
- Your expectations need to be realistic, not emotional.
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