When your stepkid says, “I miss my mom” especially right after a consequence, it hits different. It’s not just the words; it’s the sting behind them. The comparison. The reminder that no matter how much you love and show up, you’re still not her.

In this episode, Alicia dives into how to handle it when your stepchild brings up their mom whether it’s “I miss her,” “She does it better,” or “Mom lets me.” You’ll hear real stories (including one straight from The Stepmom Side Community), emotional insight, and a few hard truths about what’s really happening when those words come out.

Alicia breaks down:

• Why kids say things like “I miss my mom” and what they actually mean
• How to stay calm and respond in a way that keeps your power
• What not to do when it feels like manipulation
• Simple, validating phrases that defuse the tension
• Why leaning into the moment helps it lose power over time

If you’ve ever felt like you’re being compared, rejected, or just plain over it, this one’s for you. You’ll walk away with confidence, clarity, and maybe a little less sting next time those words come up.

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