After infidelity in marriage, it’s not just trust that breaks — it’s your heart.

• Did you feel like your entire life collapsed in that single moment when the affair was out — and with it, your sense of who you are?

• After betrayal, have you found yourself quietly asking, “Was I not enough?”

• Does it feel like your emotions are running the show, and you don’t fully trust your own heart anymore?

In this episode, we go deeper than communication strategies or surface-level forgiveness. We talk about what betrayal actually disrupts: the heart — the center of your will, identity, and direction.

Drawing from Scripture and the work of Dallas Willard, you’ll learn:

• What the heart really is

• Why infidelity shakes your identity so deeply

• How shame quietly takes leadership

• And what it looks like to live from victory instead of defeat

This is not about pretending the pain isn’t real. It’s about reclaiming your heart so betrayal doesn’t define your worth.

If you are navigating infidelity in your marriage and struggling with loneliness, forgiveness, or emotional disconnection, this episode will help you begin reordering your heart around truth — so you can live led, not defeated, even in the middle of heartbreak

Contact → julia.carlton@starke-intelligenz.com

Connect → Join the private HEART WORK Telegram group - email me to join!

Book a Free 1:1 Coaching Call with me - for the 5 women who book with me first! → https://calendly.com/julia-carlton-starke-intelligenz/45min

Next Steps

Step 1: Join a supportive community of women healing from infidelity and betrayal in the private Telegram group, where we encourage each other towards hope and reconciliation.

Step 2: Sign up for the weekly HEART WORK newsletter to receive encouragement, biblical and practical heart work.

Step 3: Get more personalized support with 1:1 betrayal recovery coaching, designed to help you rebuild inner leadership, trust yourself again, and find clarity about your marriage at your own pace. I’m giving away five free 1:1 coaching sessions for the first five women who schedule with me here:

https://calendly.com/julia-carlton-starke-intelligenz/45min