When your spouse deploys, there are a lot of new fun things to worry about and a rush of plans to get into place. Your best bet is to get a power of attorney for the things that matter, and some people elect to move back to their home towns during deployments, eager to return to a sense of comfort and community. It's a challenging time where the burden of running a life and house shift to just one person and, frankly, trigger survival mode.

For one woman, deployment survival strategy expanded from the woes and worries of running their lives to include literal survival.

This episode briefly mentions dying by suicide. If you are experiencing thoughts of self-harm, I urge you to contact the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988. Help is also available via chat on their website. For support specific to veterans, first dial 988, then selecting option 1. They also have veteran-specific chat support.

In preparing for this episode, I reviewed the Fifth Circuit Opinion and articles from KDHN , Fort Hood Sentinel, and Army Times, an FBI press release, a DOJ press release, and a Vanity Fair piece.

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