Afraid that if you speak up after infidelity, the conversation will spiral?

Do you hold things in because you don’t want to make things worse — but feel yourself slowly disappearing?

Want to communicate honestly without escalating conflict or abandoning yourself in the process?

In this Thursday Deep Dive, we explore how to communicate after infidelity in a way that honors your truth without escalating conflict or losing yourself.

After an affair — and the lying or hiding that often comes with it — communication can feel unsafe. Your body may react before your words, leaving you stuck between saying too much or saying nothing at all.

In this episode, I walk you through a clear, trauma-informed framework to help you communicate with wisdom and emotional safety — even when anxiety, fear, or anger are still present. We also talk about the difference between requests and demands, what real reassurance looks like after betrayal, and how to stay connected to yourself while speaking honestly.

This episode is for Christian women who want to rebuild trust, communicate with clarity, and move forward without rushing their healing or silencing their needs.

Contact → julia.carlton@starke-intelligenz.com

Next Steps

Step 1: Join a supportive community of Christian women healing after infidelity in my private telegram group Step 2: Sign up for the Heart Work Weekly Newsletter for encouragement and practical tools Step 3: Get personalized support through 1:1 coaching to help you heal, rebuild emotional safety, and communicate with clarity - book a free call here: https://calendly.com/julia-carlton-starke-intelligenz/45min