There’s a kind of pain most people never talk about, when you’ve done everything “right,” but your life still doesn’t feel RIGHT.

In this episode, I talk with Jay Setchell, a coach, dad, and former law enforcement officer, about what it means to wrestle with identity, burnout, and self-worth while trying to keep it all together.

We get honest about:

🎂 The silent battles men face in their faith and families

🎂 What happens when your performance becomes your prison

🎂 How to stop being the guy who FIXES EVERYTHING

🎂 Why God might feel distant, and what to do about it

🎂 The difference between surrender and giving up

This one is for the men who feel like they’re stuck between showing up and shutting down.

Getting cheated on isn’t just painful. It’s disorienting.Whether it’s a partner, a friend, or even someone betraying you with work, alcohol, or emotional distance… the hurt is real.In this episode, I sit down with Jenny Townsend, a writer, creative, and truth-teller, who opens up about how she processed betrayal in her marriage and found her way back to wholeness.We talk about:🎂 What betrayal REALLY does to your identity🎂 Why you don’t need to stay stuck in victim mode🎂 How to grieve what was while building something better🎂 The difference between forgiveness and permission🎂 And how to walk through trauma without carrying the weight foreverIf you’ve ever been blindsided by the one person you trusted most, this is the episode for you.

Tanya Prince had it all. Successful career, marriage, the whole American dream… until it all came crashing down.

Divorce. Job loss. Identity crisis.

All at once.

In this episode, Tanya opens up about what it looks like when your whole life plan dissolves, and how leaning into faith and purpose helped her rebuild something even better.

We talk about:

🎂 Why performance-based identity always leads to burnout 🎂 Walking away from your faith... and finding your way back 🎂 How to know when a closed door is ACTUALLY a redirectionThe difference between “I have to” and “I get to” 🎂 What it really looks like to depend on God (especially when you’re scared to let go of control)

This one’s for anyone who’s sitting in the rubble of what they THOUGHT life was supposed to be.

You’re not broken. You’re being rebuilt.

And purpose is still on the other side of this.

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