Online bullying, internet harassment, and cruel comment culture are out of control. In this emotional episode of Boundaries & Banter, we open up about the hateful comments we received, the difference between disagreement and bullying, and how anonymity online turns cruelty into entertainment.

We talk about:

When criticism becomes harassment

The psychology behind mob mentality online

How grief, trauma, and postpartum vulnerability get weaponized

Why being “public” does not mean consenting to abuse

How to protect your mental health in the face of online attacks

This is a raw, necessary conversation about boundaries, humanity, and why words matter more than people think.

💬 If you’ve experienced bullying — online or offline — you’re not alone.

https://www.stopbullying.gov/

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00:00 – Are we ready to talk about this?
01:05 – Why we started Boundaries & Banter
02:20 – When opinions turn into cruelty
04:01 – Criticism vs bullying: what’s the difference?
05:29 – Anonymous hate and entitlement online
08:03 – Bullying as a public health issue
09:19 – Mob mentality on social media
11:14 – Mental health impact of online harassment
15:01 – Weaponizing grief and personal trauma
18:16 – Why bullies project their pain
21:36 – Celebrity culture & parasocial entitlement
26:36 – How to protect yourself online
27:13 – A personal bullying story (high school)
33:34 – Our message to anyone being bullied
34:45 – Final thoughts: bullying is not okay

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#StopBullying
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#DigitalBoundaries

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Postpartum anxiety and in-law boundaries collide in this raw Boundaries & Banter episode. Taryn & Michela break down real-life in-law conflict, emotional enmeshment, motherhood guilt, and why boundaries are necessary—not cruel.

In this episode, we share our own experiences marrying into big, enmeshed families, navigating postpartum anxiety, and dealing with in-laws who believe “there are no boundaries in family.” We read a powerful anonymous story from a new mom struggling with postpartum anxiety, unannounced visits, guilt, and emotional manipulation—and we say the quiet parts out loud.

This episode is for you if:

You’re postpartum and emotionally overwhelmed

Your in-laws don’t respect boundaries

You’ve been told “family doesn’t need boundaries”

You feel guilty for protecting your peace

You’re trying to choose your nuclear family without burning bridges

Boundaries aren’t punishment — they’re protection. And yes, boundaries are sexy.

👇 Drop your story below or email us anonymously. You are not alone.
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00:00 – Welcome to Boundaries & Banter
01:30 – Fast engagements, marriage & zero time for boundaries
04:28 – Why we created this podcast
05:16 – Nuclear family vs. enmeshed families
06:12 – First time meeting our in-laws
09:18 – Why boundaries trigger in-laws
10:17 – When boundaries start too late
12:00 – Highs & lows of marrying into family systems
17:16 – Postpartum anxiety + in-law pressure (Anonymous Story)
21:13 – Unannounced visits & emotional manipulation
24:49 – When grandparents feel “entitled”
27:26 – Should you still go to Thanksgiving?
29:03 – Would You Rather: In-Law Edition
30:56 – Why boundaries save relationships
31:36 – Final thoughts & community message

#postpartumanxiety
#inlawboundaries
#motherhoodreal
#boundariesaresexy
#toxicfamilydynamics
#newmomlife
#emotionalboundaries
#postpartummentalhealth
#marriageandfamily
#boundariesandbanter
#inlawdrama
#womensmentalhealth

Welcome to Boundaries & Banter 🎙️
Join Taryn and Michela for raw, funny, and heartfelt conversations about mental health, relationships, and everything in between.

👇 Stay connected with us:
📸 Instagram – @boundariesandbanter

🎵 TikTok – @boundariesandbanter

▶️ YouTube Shorts & full episodes – youtube.com/@boundariesandbanter

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