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For The Man Who Shows Up And Gets Told He’s The Problem

For The Man Who Shows Up And Gets Told He’s The Problem

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For a lot of men, the first time they'll receive flowers is at their funeral. In this episode, Bryce Prescott speaks directly — brother to brother — to the man who is doing the work every day, showing up for everyone around him, and coming home at night to a feed that tells him he's the problem. Through the lens of male identity, the criticism-versus-change paradox, and one of the most overlooked dynamics in self-development culture, Bryce makes a direct case: constant outside criticism of men isn't making men better. It's just making good men feel worse. The episode closes with a specific assignment for three different groups — the men themselves, the people who love them, and anyone curious about what it actually costs to be a man right now.Listen in!Takeaways:For a lot of men, the first time they'll receive flowers is at their funeral. Everything goes unsaid. The weight goes unacknowledged. And they never get to hear any of it because they're already gone.The man showing up every day — working on his life, caring for his family, trying to get his money right and his body right and his spirit right — is the default guy in Bryce's world. He gets almost no recognition for any of it.Criticism almost never changes a group when it comes from outside of it. It doesn't land as an invitation. It lands as an attack. The people it resonates with already hate that group. The people it should reach aren't listening. The good ones just feel targeted.A constant barrage of content telling you that you're the problem for who you are — not what you did — is not feedback. It's not a weight to lift. It's a wall. You're allowed to swipe away.Shitting on men is not going to make men better. We respond far more to honey than to vinegar. The most well-intentioned voices are still doing it wrong.Most men don't need more criticism. They are painfully, quietly aware of their own failures. They lie awake running the list. They don't need the internet reading it back to them.Men are malpracticed at receiving. Almost every compliment, thank you, or good thing they received in their lives came attached to an expectation, a debt, or a condition. Now when something real comes, they don't know what to do with it. They deflect. They wave it off. They wait for the catch.When you stop beating yourself up, you suddenly notice how many other people are lined up to do it for you — and you start asking why you're allowing it.The evidence check matters more than the feeling. Four domains: health and fitness, personal relationships, money and business, spirituality. If you're taking deliberate action in all four, you have evidence. You don't need the internet's permission to feel good about yourself.There is a quieter, deeper voice underneath the ego and the inner critic. That voice is connected to something bigger. When you get quiet enough to hear it, it will tell you everything you actually need to know.The inner critic and the outside noise are running on the same frequency. When Bryce turned off the inner critic, he could suddenly see how empty the outside message really was. One freed up space for the other.To the people who love men: don't assume he knows. Say it out loud. Tell him you see the weight he carries. Tell him what he means to you. When he deflects it — and he will — say it again. He needs the reps.Don't wait until his funeral to give him his flowers. Do it now. Today. Before the window closes.Men aren't tired of the work. They signed up for it. They're tired of being told they're the problem for carrying it.The male suicide epidemic is out of control. This episode exists because Bryce couldn't stand by and watch good men get swallowed by a narrative that doesn't know them — and say nothing.Thanks for listening to this episode of The LAB Podcast!Your story is waiting to be told, and we're here to help you tell it better.If you’d like to join The Lab, our weekly group coaching experience please visit BrycePrescott.com/thelabgroup and follow the prompts. We’re ready to give you the right information, guidance and community needed for your next level of success!Please visit BrycePrescott.com to learn more about how to work with us relating to your podcast production, creation or consulting needs.Please follow our host on Instagram @bryceprescott
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