Has this ever happened to you? You know exactly what you want, what you believe, and what’s true in your bones, but then you start negotiating with yourself. Maybe you tell yourself to wait, maybe you question if you’re wrong, or worry about how others will feel. Most high-achieving women fall into this pattern. Spinning between fear, uncertainty, and the need to manage outcomes keeps you stuck and drains your confidence.

In this episode, I break down why negotiating with yourself silently undermines your self-trust and leadership authority. I guide you through a framework to identify where you’re negotiating with yourself, distinguish facts from your personal truth, and consciously rewrite the story you tell yourself so that it empowers rather than paralyzes you.

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