Accountability is where most men either grow up… or shut down.

In this episode, Jack tackles one of the most misunderstood aspects of masculine maturity: owning your impact without collapsing into shame or hiding behind defensiveness. Through powerful metaphors and real-life scenarios, he explains why feedback often feels like a threat to a man’s identity — and how that fear quietly damages trust in relationships.

What’s the difference between an apology and real accountability?
Why do men defend when they actually care?
And how does avoiding ownership slowly crack the foundation of love?

This episode reframes accountability as strength — not punishment. As repair — not humiliation. As structure — not surrender.

If you’ve ever said “I’m sorry” but nothing changed…
If you’ve ever felt attacked when someone said you hurt them…
If you’ve ever watched a relationship deteriorate over “small things”…

This conversation will sharpen you.

Because relationships don’t collapse from one big mistake.

They collapse from many small moments that were never owned.

Split the log clean.
Adjust your stance.
And learn how to finish the work.

Serious about change?
Start with the free clarity training at Expectancy.tv — this is where working with me begins.

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