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You’re so good at showing up for everyone else that you’ve quietly disappeared at home—and the people you love most are starting to feel the distance.

If burnout and compassion fatigue have left you emotionally flat, irritable, withdrawn, or numb in your relationships, this episode names what’s actually happening beneath the surface—without blaming you, shaming you, or asking you to “try harder.”

Women healers over 50 don’t lose connection because they stop caring.
They lose connection because chronic burnout exhausts the nervous system’s capacity for relationship.

After years of emotional labor, trauma exposure, and self-neglect, many high-achieving helpers find themselves overwhelmed, resentful, and quietly disconnected at home—not because they lack love, but because their bodies are still operating in survival mode.

When the nervous system is depleted, presence becomes impossible. Intimacy feels like effort. Conversation feels draining. Withdrawal becomes protection.

This episode explains why that pattern makes sense—and how to interrupt it without sacrificing yourself further.

In this episode, Julie Merriman, Ph.D., LPC-S explores:

• Why compassion fatigue drains relational capacity long before it shows up as open conflict
• How burnout creates emotional withdrawal, irritability, and “ghosting” in close relationships
• The neuroscience behind dissociation, nervous-system depletion, and loss of connection
• Why resentment in relationships is information, not failure
• How unfinished stress cycles keep you trapped in exhaustion and disconnection
• Three somatic practices that support relational repair without self-abandonment
• How heart-centered, body-based work restores connection without re-depleting yourself

This episode is for women who feel confused by their own withdrawal—and want real tools, not platitudes, to reclaim connection, clarity, and purpose.

If this episode described your inner world, don’t ignore that recognition.

Read In Pursuit of Soul Joy: A 12-Week Guide for Overcoming Burnout and Compassion Fatigue. The book walks you through nervous-system-informed recovery, embodied practices, and sustainable repair—for both your energy and your relationships.

If one woman came to mind while listening, share this episode with her.
We rise together.

This podcast is for women healers over 50 navigating burnout and compassion fatigue who want nervous-system-informed insight into exhaustion, overwhelm, resentment, self-neglect, identity loss, and purpose so they can move toward clarity, boundaries, liberation, wisdom, and renewal.

Burnout isn’t your failure—it’s the cost of caring too long without support.
In Pursuit of Soul Joy: A 12-Week Guide for Overcoming Burnout and Compassion Fatigue is written for women healers ready to stop surviving and start living again.

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