She left after seven months. Let him keep the house. Let him have the rings. Paid what she owed—with an interest penalty clause he demanded. Moved back to Ohio, rebuilt her life, married Spencer, had two children. Her family says Monique never said Michael McKee's name after the divorce. She only called him "her ex-husband." She talked about the emotional abuse. The torment. She was always worried. Eight years later, police say he drove 300 miles and killed her anyway.

Former FBI Special Agent Jennifer Coffindaffer examines the psychology of someone who allegedly holds onto that kind of rage for nearly a decade. She describes "deep-seated resentment and hate that just built up"—the behavioral profile of a grievance collector who catalogs every perceived slight, assigns permanent blame, and never moves on. For someone like this, watching an ex-spouse build a happy new family isn't closure. It's fuel.

The divorce records tell their own story. McKee wanted the rings back from a marriage that lasted less than a year. The separation agreement required Monique to reimburse him with interest. Coffindaffer explains what these control dynamics reveal about ownership and entitlement. Someone who demands jewelry back from a seven-month marriage isn't negotiating a settlement. They're keeping score.

Police labeled this a "targeted domestic violence attack." But there were no prior reports. No restraining orders. No documented threats. Monique's family says the arrest was "not a shock"—they'd suspected McKee from day one but stayed quiet to protect the investigation. The family knew. For eight years, they knew. And the system couldn't act until two people were dead and two children were orphaned.

What does it mean when doing everything right still isn't enough to survive?

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