Taking action in aged care is rarely easy — but delaying it can come at an enormous emotional, physical, and financial cost.

In this deeply insightful and compassionate episode, Ron Fiedler is joined by fortnightly resident expert Gail Ruth Miller to explore why so many people struggle to act, even when they know they should.

As the first episode of 2026, this conversation sets a powerful tone for the year ahead — one focused on clarity, dignity, and empowerment.

Together, Ron and Gail unpack the emotional paralysis that often accompanies aged care decisions, including fear of the unknown, guilt, overwhelm, and the belief that “things aren’t bad enough yet”.

Drawing on real-life experiences from families navigating dementia, hospital discharges, and carer exhaustion, Gail explains how the simple act of making a phone call — or having someone make it for you — can immediately lift a heavy emotional burden.

The episode highlights how inaction often leads to crisis-driven decisions, where families lose choice, control, and proximity, while early action preserves options, relationships, and peace of mind.

This episode is not about pressure or panic — it’s about reassurance. It reminds listeners that support exists, that asking for help is not a failure, and that taking action early is one of the most compassionate things you can do for yourself and those you care for.

For Aged Care assistance, contact Carina Curtis, Aged Care Consultant 0433 897 083

Resident Expert: Gail Ruth Miller

A respected aged care consultant, educator, and advocate, Gail has spent years guiding families through complex aged care decisions.

She is known for her calm, practical, and compassionate approach, particularly in dementia support and aged care planning.

Host: Ron Fiedler

Co-Founder and Producer, Podcast City – Business & Lifestyle Network

Radio host, podcast producer, coach and media mentor dedicated to informed, community-focused conversations.

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Produced by: Podcast City – Business & Lifestyle Network

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Producer: Ron Fiedler